If god does not give you something you ask for, wait on him. He will speak with you tenderly and sympathetically about the matter until you yourself understand that he cannot grant your prayer.
I look to longevity. I just consider myself an actress and getting good roles. If being a 'superstar' gets me good roles, then that's a positive thing. But my goal isn't just to be a superstar. It's to act for a long time.